Opinions Are A Distorted Reflection

Ever since a customer described me as bubbly I’ve been thinking… never good I know!

Then my friend & colleague, Mindy, made one of those startling comments;

“well all that means is compared to HIM you’re bubbly”

WHAM – it hit me, like a cartoon hammer on the head. That is the #1 reason other people’s opinions of us are really none of our business.

What you are actually getting is a comparison between the THINKER & YOU… which is at best 50% about them & 50% about you. More likely it is 100% about them as their feelings are being reflected off you – like a distorted mirror of themselves and not about you at all.

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It’s time to stop worrying about what other people think and begin to consider what you think about yourself. If you like what you see in your mental mirror – keep doing what you’re doing. If the image staring back at you isn’t the one you want to see – make some changes.

I know… not really about sales today BUT it kind of is 🙂

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